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Understanding Self-Regulation: What It Is and Why It Matters

Self-regulation

Behaviour management

Emotional intelligence

By Parentshop Staff

25th July, 2024

In the landscape of child development, self-regulation has emerged as a critical focus, revealing its profound impact on children's learning, social relationships, and long-term mental health. Recognising and fostering self-regulation in early childhood can significantly influence a child's future, shaping them into positive learners and well-adjusted individuals.


Self-regulation refers to the ability to manage one’s emotions, behaviour, and attention in a way that is socially acceptable and aids in achieving personal goals. This involves controlling impulses, maintaining focus, and adjusting emotions in response to different situations. It is a skill that children are not born with but develop over time through supportive environments and positive interactions with caregivers and educators.


Research has highlighted the importance of self-regulation in early childhood, linking it to better school performance and overall wellbeing. Contrary to earlier beliefs that a child's intelligence (IQ) solely determined their academic success, recent studies show that self-regulation plays a more pivotal role. Children who can manage their emotions and behaviours are more likely to succeed academically and socially.


The development of self-regulation starts with external regulation by caregivers. Adults around children must be attuned to their needs and capable of regulating their own emotions. By providing a stable and responsive environment, caregivers help children learn to modulate the intensity of stimuli, which is crucial for maintaining focus and achieving deep learning.

In practice, self-regulation is influenced by several domains:

  1. Biology: Children’s temperament and energy levels affect their arousal states and how they engage with tasks.

  2. Emotion: Monitoring, evaluating, and modifying emotions are essential for managing feelings and moods.

  3. Cognition: Executive functions like memory, attention, and problem-solving play a role in sustaining attention and controlling impulses.

  4. Social: Understanding and navigating social cues and behaviours are critical for developing social competence.

  5. Prosocial: Reflective skills, empathy, and values contribute to moral development and self-awareness.

The interplay between these domains means that a child's ability to self-regulate is a dynamic process, influenced by their biological makeup and experiences. For instance, a child's reactivity to sensory stimuli (like sound or light) and their capacity to disengage from stressful situations directly impact their emotional regulation. This, in turn, affects their focus, attention, and ability to handle frustration.


In conclusion, fostering self-regulation in children is not just about managing behaviour but about equipping them with essential skills for life. By understanding and supporting the complex interplay of biological and experiential factors, caregivers and educators can help children develop the capacity to manage their emotions and behaviours effectively, paving the way for their success and wellbeing.


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